Children's Self Esteem Tips  'It is the self esteem thermostat that controls, health, wealth and happiness' Jack Cranfield Be respectful to them Be accepting of them Believe in them Identify their strengths Praise their good behaviour Help them to problem solve Support and encourage them in what they do Praise and reward their efforts and achievements Encourage perseverance Encourage them to take responsibility for their own actions Teach them to respect others Help them to have a positive self image Encourage their curiosity Encourage their special interests Support them to be creative Help them to communicate well Join in with fun activities Teach good social skills Teach them to be assertive Support them in trying new things