THE PARENT'S GUIDE TO CHILDREN'S BEHAVIOUR

The first step towards calm and connection has never
been easier.

Understand what's driving your child's behaviour - and start changing it tonight. Both books as instant downloads, to read on any device or print at home.

The Parent's Guide & Workbook - Digital Bundle
The Parent's Guide & Workbook - Digital Bundle
£12.00

The Parent's Guide to Children's Behaviour and the Parents' Workbook - the complete four-part approach to understanding what's driving your child's behaviour, and practical exercises to put it to work at home.

Instant download after checkout - both books as PDFs, ready to read on any device or print at home. Start tonight.

Following the approach behind all our support - backed by the CANparent Quality Mark.

Prefer real books? See the printed set below.

Bedtime battles
Meltdowns out of nowhere "They just don't listen"

SOUND FAMILIAR?

You've tried being firmer, softer, calmer - and the same patterns keep winning. The guide starts from a different place: behaviour is communication. When you understand what your child is telling you, everything gets easier.

WHAT YOU GET

two books
one approach

Book cover titled 'Unleash Your Child's Greatness: Parent's Guide to Children's Behaviour' by Ruth Edensor, featuring a colorful abstract background in shades of purple and blue.
A page from a book or document about parenting, including a section titled "How one teenager's behaviour is the result of lenient parenting" and a checklist of questions for parents to consider their parenting style.
Table of contents page with a purple and blue gradient background, listing four parts of a book about parenting and child behavior.
Page from a parenting guide titled "HOW YOU INFLUENCE YOUR CHILD'S BEHAVIOUR" in section "PARENTING STYLES" describing negative parenting styles, including "LENIENT" parenting, with bullet points on characteristics of lenient parents.

A look inside — the four-part approach, and pages you'll actually use.

The Parent's Guide to Children's Behaviour
The complete four-part approach - what's really driving challenging behaviour, and how to respond with connection, not correction. For children aged 0–18 (up to 25 with SEND).

Cover of a workbook titled "Parent's Workbook for Children's Behaviour" with a subtitle "Unleash Your Child's Greatness" and the author's name, Ruth Edensor, displayed on a colorful background.
A motivational chart titled 'Growth Mindset: Ask Yourself and Your Child' with various questions for self-improvement and growth challenges, arranged in a grid on a purple background.
A worksheet titled 'Reward Good Behaviour' with questions about encouraging positive actions in children, including sections to fill out responses about rewards and bribery.
A printable guide titled 'Clearing for Emotional Wellbeing' listing five steps for emotional clearing: 1. Ask your child what they are thinking, 2. Ask them how they feel, 3. Listen and ask relevant questions, 4. Shift their mindset, 5. Acknowledge your child and validate their feelings.

The Parent's Workbook for Children’s Behaviour
Where the guide becomes real. Practical exercises, checklists and reflection pages that follow the four parts of the approach, step by step - taking what you've read into your home. Work through it on screen, or print the pages and pick up a pen. Small steps, done in real family life, that add up to lasting change.

Both books, everything in the approach - £12. Start tonight.

The Parent's Guide & Workbook - Digital Bundle
The Parent's Guide & Workbook - Digital Bundle
£12.00

The Parent's Guide to Children's Behaviour and the Parents' Workbook - the complete four-part approach to understanding what's driving your child's behaviour, and practical exercises to put it to work at home.

Instant download after checkout - both books as PDFs, ready to read on any device or print at home. Start tonight.

Following the approach behind all our support - backed by the CANparent Quality Mark.

Instant PDF download · No account needed · One-time payment

A logo with the words 'can parent' and a green checkmark, featuring puzzle pieces and the subtitle 'Quality Mark'.

BACKED BY THE CANPARENT QUALITY MARK

The UK government-backed standard for parenting programmes. It means the approach in these books has been independently assessed - proven methods, not opinion. The same approach behind all our support, from these pages to the 8-week course.

Prefer real books?

These books were designed for print first - made to live on the kitchen shelf, with a workbook you fill in by hand. The PDFs give you everything instantly - the printed set is the full experience. £55 including postage.

The Parent's Guide & Workbook — Printed Set The Parent's Guide & Workbook — Printed Set
The Parent's Guide & Workbook — Printed Set
£55.00

The Parent's Guide to Children's Behaviour and the Parents' Workbook — the real books, printed and posted to you.

Designed for print first: a guide made to live on the kitchen shelf, and a workbook you fill in by hand.

Backed by the CANparent Quality Mark.

Black and white photo of a woman with shoulder-length hair, glasses, and a necklace smiling at the camera, wearing a dark top.

Written by Ruth Edensor

40+ years working with children and families, from nanny to nursery manager to child behaviour specialist. The guide is everything that experience taught her about what really works.

40+ Years Working with Children and Families | BSc Psychology | NNEB | CTTLS | CAN-Parent Approved

  • "This program has offered a lot of reflection and different ways to look at things to find helpful solutions. No parent is perfect, and asking for help is ok."

    Chloe from Surrey

  • "I thought it might work, but I never thought it would be instant."

    Jenny from Surrey

  • "This has helped me to put things into perspective, take a step back and better understand feelings, emotions and reactions. It has helped me to feel like I am now in a better place."

    Tina from Slough

  • "We are recognising what we can do and take the time to say positive words rather than just jumping in to criticise. We are having much fewer situations arising, and we can see where conflict is building up so we can avoid it. We strongly recommend the program - it has helped our family and our household to be much happier.”

    Rochelle from Stone

  • "An excellent program that guides your positive nature to fuel your family development. The skills I have learned will last us a lifetime."

    John from Lichfield

  • "I hope this is the start of a lifelong journey for all our family. I have told so many people about what I've been learning and how much I've actually enjoyed it."

    Kim from Surrey

  • "This program has been an enlightening experience that I would recommend to any parent who feels they need support."

    Rob from Birmingham

  • "I have thoroughly enjoyed the program and learned realistic and achievable parenting skills.

    Dave from Birmingham

YOUR FIRST STEP

Ready when you are

The Parent's Guide & Workbook - Digital Bundle
The Parent's Guide & Workbook - Digital Bundle
£12.00

The Parent's Guide to Children's Behaviour and the Parents' Workbook - the complete four-part approach to understanding what's driving your child's behaviour, and practical exercises to put it to work at home.

Instant download after checkout - both books as PDFs, ready to read on any device or print at home. Start tonight.

Following the approach behind all our support - backed by the CANparent Quality Mark.

Instant PDF download · No account needed · One-time payment

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NOT QUITE WHAT YOU NEED?

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A one-to-one session takes the guide's approach and applies it to your child, live.

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The 8-week course works through the whole approach with Ruth beside you - printed books included.

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