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The Toxic Damage of Gaslighting Children

Do you feel like your relationship with your child is strained, that something’s off, and you’re not as close as you’d like to be? Maybe they seem distant, unsure of themselves, or quick to shut down. The word gaslighting gets used a lot, but what does it mean in parenting, and could it be part of what’s getting in the way?

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Ruth Edensor Ruth Edensor

How to Handle Sibling Rivalry

Tired of constant arguments or jealous outbursts between your children? Whether they’re little or nearly grown, sibling rivalry can drain the joy from family life.

This post offers gentle, practical ways to bring more peace (and less conflict) into your home.

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Ruth Edensor Ruth Edensor

WHY Children’s Behaviour Often Isn’t the Problem

Challenging behaviour isn’t always what it seems.
Often, it’s a signal — not the problem itself.

In this post, we explore one of the most overlooked reasons behind what children are really trying to tell us.

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Ruth Edensor Ruth Edensor

How my Childhood Inspired Me to HELP PARENTS

My own childhood shaped everything.
In this post, I share how those early experiences led me to this work — and why I’m so passionate about helping parents understand their children.

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Dan Edensor Dan Edensor

WHY CHILDREN TELL LIES

Discovering that your child has been deceitful can be incredibly frustrating for a parent. Here we explore five key reasons why children lie, and how to create a healthier and more honest relationship with your child.

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Dan Edensor Dan Edensor

YOUR ATTACHMENT STYLE

How we develop attachments affect how we interact with others and cope with our environment and our level of emotional resilience.

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Ruth Ruth

WHAT CHILDREN NEED FROM THEIR PARENTS

It’s not about fancy holidays, the latest gadgets, designer clothes, or material possessions. Every child needs a heartfelt, loving connection with their parents.

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Ruth Ruth

VALUES OVER GOALS

Concerned about your child's lack of motivation, drive and enthusiasm for life? This blog will resonate with you. We look at the positive power of value-focused living and its impact on children's well-being and success.

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Ruth Ruth

THE HIDDEN FAWN RESPONSE

Many of us are familiar with the 'Fight, Flight, or Freeze' reactions to stress. Another response to stress is the 'Fawn' response. What is it? Why does it happen? How does it affect our children's behaviour?

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Ruth Ruth

DEALING WITH BULLIES

Bullying is a topic of concern for many parents. Although we can't change other people's behaviour, we can proactively help our children by giving them the life skills they need to protect themselves from harm.

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Dan Edensor Dan Edensor

SETTLING YOUR CHILD INTO SCHOOL

If your little one is about to embark on an incredible adventure - their first day of school or moving class - and the mere thought flutters your heart with excitement, nostalgia, and a dollop of anxiety, you're not alone. 

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Dan Edensor Dan Edensor

HOW TO GET CHILDREN TO LISTEN

Today, we will talk about one of the most popular questions parents ask "How do I get my children to listen?"  

The truth is, they are ALWAYS listening. The frustrating part for you is that they don't respond. 

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